Welcome, reader
If you couldn’t find the part written for you — this is it.
More and more submissives wrote in saying they loved the writing but couldn’t find the section meant for them. The honest answer was that it didn’t exist. So this does.
Almost everything written about submission is written to dominants, or by submissives sharing their own road. Both have their place. But there was a gap: nobody on the other side of the dynamic was sitting you down and telling you, plainly, how this actually works — and how to keep yourself safe while you do it.
I’m Sir Linus. I’m a dominant. I write the sister publication, Dominant Guide, for people in my chair. This one is for you — the submissive — and it’s written the way I’d want someone to write for a woman I cared about: protective first, honest always, never talking down to you.
Where to begin
Five rooms, depending on what you came here for:
- Practice — Protocol, training, ritual — the daily craft of submission.
- Relationships — Beginnings, distance, collars, contracts, finding a dom worth trusting.
- Body — Subdrop, aftercare, safety — what your body does, and how I read it.
- Mind — Identity, the inner life, the low days — why you are not wrong.
- Library — The books that actually shaped how I think about power.
- Reader Letters — real letters from submissives, answered honestly.
One thing first
Before anything else, read the Safety Brief below. It’s the short version of what I most want you to know before you give yourself over to anyone — the questions to ask, the red flags, the things a good dominant will never make you feel. It’s free, and I read every reply.